
We left Essex Lane about 7pm after a somewhat grueling day. But, we got it done. The house is ready for rental. Justin got the oil changed and tires rotated when he went out to buy a cover for our car; shes now tucked away to the side of the garage. We were ready to roll in our rental car. We left checks and keys with Lisa and were on our way to the Best Western near IAH.
I had a perfect day with Dellene. Dellene already had tickets for the Preservation Society of Georgetown holiday homes tour 2024. She told Mike I got to go and that meant he couldn’t. He was ok with it thankfully.
Perfect day!!! We took time for a stretch at the visitors welcome center when we crossed the state line into Texas. We read about the 1931 Free bridge controversy; I continuing my goal of indoctrinating Justin into Texas history. He might say that I was bombarding him. Truth is I didn’t know this Red River trivia either.
It was 23’ and cloudy when we left Green Bay at 4pm. Soon, my unfettered toes will be on a sandy beach.
We finished tarping the boat exactly as the noon whistle blew and the snow began falling. We finished loading, topped up with gas and a quick run through the car wash and we were rolling.
The only good thing about weather this cold is no bugs on the windshield. The only good thing.
We stopped for the night in Springfield, Illinois. I was determined that we would be in another state before we stopped.
No not my handiwork but an idea for later. |
The Packers loss to the Lions was so disappointing. The Lions have truly been on fire and the Vikings are not far behind. We are trying to get ready to leave but there is still time for football!
Just a few days ago I took this photo of an iris in our yard. Even the plants are confused. |
I’d never experienced a storm rolling as I did last Tuesday. I’ve watched rain storms roll in but this was a snow storm. The wind gusts shifted and within minutes we had two inches of snow on the ground. We were at the boat and it was a beast.
Yesterday, Justin moved the ladder and left me stranded up top. I threw a roll of Saran Wrap at the car to get his attention but my attempt was for naught.
I would have told you that we’d eaten everything in the frig but I keep coming up with some pretty good dinners out of the freezer and pantry and, all this is without cooking. Tomato bisque; ramen and gyoza; risotto; pasta. Justin told Dellene we had only three eggs and mustard in the frig. She suggested we make deviled eggs.
Jeremy was with us for exactly one month He arrived in Milwaukee in 18 October and he flew out of GreenBay back to Oklahoma City on 18 November. It was a month. To quote Justin, “The Jeremy experiment was not a success.” It will be a while before Justin and I can get past the last month… it will take more that a few words of apology and a few dollars of reimbursed expenses before we will be able to get to a point where we can smile. In addition to follow up and PT for his broken leg, Jeremy needs mental health support and he needs to address his alcoholism. I hope he finds the support he needs. Thank goodness all this surfaced before we left him in the house in Green Bay and we headed south to Mexico! To quote Dellene, “ You spent four hundred dollars to get that man out of your house?” My reply, “and I would have spent twice that amount.”
Meanwhile, Justin and I are emotionally and physically drained. We are trying to get everything done to leave. We started several projects that must be finished before we leave. Projects that would have gone much differently with three people, but… here we go.
Justin and I scrambled to get ready for Jeremy.
Jeremy and Allison have been divorced for almost two years. He has been floundering. Justin has kept in contact with him and we saw Jeremy in Tulsa maybe a year or so ago where he was living with his brother. More recently he was living in Memphis with another brother and his mom. He’s been struggling and we thought we could provide him with some stability to get his feet back on the ground. He talked about going back to school. Of course Justin and I would support that idea. He’s got a lot of skills and he could help Justin tremendously not only at Hartung but also on the boat. And then there is Mexico. I’d been super happy to have Jeremy stay here over the summer and I’d be happy to have him I Mexico for a while too. No matter where he stays, I think Justin will be a good influence on him. And, he’s a good cook. I’ll be fine to eat his cooking from time to time.
So Justin left to go meet him in Milwaukee; I changed the sheets on the bed and cooked dinner. We will see what happens because he’s on a plane headed this way.
On Wednesday, still feeling puny and having done everything I could at Essex, I drove to Houston and checked into my hotel. My team came through for me while I was on the road. Lisa got rid of the last of the boxes. (Dellene had got them all free through Next Door and we sent them on to their next usefulness the same way.) Charles oversaw the switch out of the garbage cans. I guess they think if you have a smaller house you only need smaller garbage cans. Well I guess I am just trashy and I needed large cans. Cate was in charge when the new frig was delivered. It was dented and she refused delivery. Now I need to reach out to Samsung to arrange another.
The last few days have been crazy. Dellene and I did take time for a trip to Audrey’s in Florence but they were closed.
We packed and got ready for Alix and his crew on Wednesday. They showed up bright and early and were ready to roll. Those guys really do a good job. Of course there were some hiccups, but all in all, We were lucky.
Somewhere along the way Charles popped in to say hello. Later Mark stopped by too. I almost needed a roadmap to explain to Dellene who these people were who had just walked in to my house.
Dellene headed back to Austin. Lisa cleared her schedule and we spent Friday with more unpacking and getting settled.
We did take time this morning to go back to Audrey’s and found dishes…yes, more dishes. Now I have white square dinner plates, salad plates and a platter. Eileen would be proud of me.
Kristen brought lunch for all of us. My first guests. Randall was playing golf so Kristen had two hours off. If I was a really good friend I'd offer to sit with Randall so Kristen could so get a massage or something for herself. But, I am selfish and I wanted to see her. Our burgers were pretty good. And fried okra to boot!
Dellene and I enjoyed breakfast at Jim’s. I wanted grits and Jim’s was the place to go. Then I was on my way to Sun City. I felt like a traffic cop today. Cluster with the keys to get into the house…cluster with the property management folks. But then we got rolling.
I visited the new house. I think this is going to work! Dellene joined me at Winter after a baby shower and she set into packing. She worked like a trouper. [Later she told me she was just being noisy and wanted to check out my stuff. No matter, she packed and then unpacked and set up the entire kitchen.]
We decided we’d earned a break in the afternoon so we went to Audrey’s in Florence but they were closed. It was a nice outing anyway.
I took this photo of the shelves in the garage so I'd know how to put it all back together in the new house. |
Today was a travel day for me and it started early. Luis met me at at the airport at 5:00am to turn in the car then I was on to my flight. We skirted hurricane Milton on the way into Houston I'd learn later of the effects in Celestun.
I picked up my rental car and was on my way to Austin to see my Dellene. She was babysitting
Brewer; Mike came home after work; dinner of chicken tetrazzini. I was home.